Be inspired by others failure

On February 1, 2012 By

Don’t bother making any friends; most of the people around you won’t be here for very long.  Your confidence will come from seeing others drop out, as they will.  You must want to be here.  If you have a “Plan B,” you won’t make it.”

Selector’s Greeting, Australian Special Air Service

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But mommy, I’m 27

On January 31, 2012 By

Be afraid.  Be very afraid.

There are now 14 million adult “children” living at home with dear old mom and dad.  And, the number is growing and growing.

If you don’t have a job or are working part-time or contract or unbenefited, it is very difficult [...]

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How to make good choices

On January 30, 2012 By

You learn from observation.  You see people who make good choices.  You see people who make poor choices. Are you learning?

You see Melika spending tens of thousands of dollars opening a restaurant specializing in Moroccan soups.  You think, “Who the hell wants Moroccan soups?” You are correct.  You think, “What is this idiot thinking?” You [...]

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How to live in the present

On January 29, 2012 By

ou were born into poverty.  There is nothing you can do about this.

Your parents were dysfunctional alcoholics.  There is nothing you can do about this.

You were the high school cheerleader.  Does anyone remember your glory days?

Your second cousin on your mother’s side is the govenor.  And, that does what for you?

Your [...]

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What matters?

On January 28, 2012 By

Here is a quiz to which the average fifth grader would score 100%.

What matters?   What shouldn’t matter?  What doesn’t matter?

Acceptance of work hard – MATTERS

Focused written goals – MATTERS

Type of business/career – SHOULDN’T MATTER

Dysfunctional family – SHOULDN’T MATTER

Accepts constructive criticism – MATTERS

Leadership [...]

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Just say it!

On January 27, 2012 By

Other people aren’t mind readers.

So, speak up.  Tell them.  Just say it.

If you are interested in a promotion, inform the appropriate supervisor, just say it.

If you intend to get an “A” in a course, tell the professor, just say it.

If you’d  like that pretty coed to know you’re interested in a [...]

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You get cut off in traffic.  It happens.

Your best client buys somewhere else.  It happens.

You go jogging and pull a muscle.  It happens.

You go to a great movie that turns out to be a dud.  It happens.

You study and still get a C.  It happens.

You negotiate a [...]

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How to avoid a cat food retirement

On January 25, 2012 By

This isn’t funny.

What do you have to eat when you have no money?  Well, you stand in line at the soup kitchen or at the church food pantry.  What if you are a senior citizen and can’t get to the free food?  Well, you might eat from the last cans in your cupboard.  If [...]

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